2/27/2024 0 Comments I date up some date downNow that she's lost some of her looks, she only gets hit on by 5s and 6s. Who knows. Maybe she's a 7 that feels like she deserves a 10 but all she got hit on was 8s and 9s. Maybe she cheated and got caught, maybe she nagged all her exes to death or maybe she waited to long to settle down and is now past her prime. She had plenty of chances to date up but she fuck up all her opportunities. She's better than every man she meets in every way. Problem is, there aren't any single men in her social circles that can show her up in any category. She's a 10 as far as looks, smart, makes 6 figures, has no kids, she has the full package. She might usually date up, but right now, she just needs ANY guy to help her take her mind off her ex, even if she's out of his league. She gets hit on by high quality guys, but she feels like she's not worthy of having one so she restricts her choices to low quality men. As her looks improved, her self-esteem remained the same. More than likely, she was ugly/fat in the past so she grew accustomed to dating low quality guys. She is decent looking, if not bad, but has vulnerable self-esteem. And if she does manage to bag a 4+, she'll be used to cure his blue balls until he builds up the courage to talk to a 5+. If she's a 3 then most of the guys that hit on her are going to be 3s or worse. She has plenty of options, as most women do, but her options are relatively no better than her. She's just fat, ugly or has some other trait that high quality men try to avoid like kids or an attitude problem. Why ruin a good thing by looking for something better right? In the back of her mind she knows she can do better, but she tries not to think about it. She has a checklist of everything she wants in a man and she thinks her current guy satisfies 90% or more of the list, but half of the list includes qualities he can easily trick her into thinking he has, like "faithfulness." Either that, or she's in denial. But some women wind up date down and here are the main reasons why: Whatever she values most, the man she chooses will more than likely outdo her in that particular thing. Because of these chosen tactics, woman generally date up, and as a result, most men date down. For example, an intelligent women is going to choose a guy that's smarter than her or a woman who makes $80k/yr is going to choose a guy who makes $100k/yr. Usually the men they choose outrank them in some kind of way that's significant to them. Their strategy involves making themselves available to many men at once and then taking their pick of the best ones. Women, on the other hand are passive choosers. Most men aren't super picky, especially if they don't fall in the top 20% of men as far as height, income, looks and confidence. They know exactly what they want, and they'll put forth a decent effort while shooting their shot, but will take whatever they can hit. It's actually similar to how a lot of other animals choose mates. When it comes to dating, there is a very distinct difference between how men and women choose mates.
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